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getting my life back

hey everybody, i am doing very well now i know before i was at a terrible place but my life is coming together slowly. i have a job now yayyyy!!!!! and i got my car back. i have even have a checking account now. i am just saving up for a place to live and to get some furniture for my kids and me like beds and stuff. but i want to thank all who have been concerned and have written me .anyway thanks and if anyone can help with lights getting turned on and some furniture it would be appreciated. thanks

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candi+2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to jadabuggie...   

at least your husband came home and with a paycheck be thankful for what you do have.

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candi+2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

whats on my mind?   you know i was reading down this list of heartaches and troubles while reflecting on my own, and i am so sad that this is our America. there is no way we should all be struggling in this great land of opportunity. it makes me so angry at our government for letting us get this way. Taking our jobs our money our everything and letting people overseas have it. It just breaks my heart. i wonder if anyone sitting up there in government is doing without food, or having to walk everywhere cause they dont have a car, or do they wonder where the money for the light bill and water bill is coming, do they wonder how they are going to clothe their kids. do they understand how embarrasing it is to whip out a foodstamp card or have to tell your kids no to even the smallest things cause you only have enough money for a gallon of milk. i am just angry so very angry, who do we turn to what do we do our government doesnt care, our family and friends are just as poor as we are. what do you do?

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candi+2   in reply to candi+2   on

i think i give up

 in response to Rosie327...   

thank you rosie327 i appreciate the time you put into that list i spent all morning on a borrowed phone calling all the shelters. most of them were for men of course and alot said they were for women but were for men, and alot of them were for mentally or drug addicted people. i did find one called firstlight in birmingham they don't have any beds bt they said they could put us on the floor. which is better than being outside. i just need the money to get there now. thank you very much.

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candi+2   in reply to candi+2   on

i think i give up

 in response to missmybabies...   

i also said i never would but i can understand the desperation a parent feels when u dont know what will happen i mean mayby you have never been faced with literally being on the street with two small children. with no one to even keep your babies so you can get back on your feet. there are no shelters in my town for women and kids. i would NEVER harm my children i love them with all my heart. they are my life the only thing i have in this world literally. i guess i was just upset and said something without thinking i am truly sorry. my two beautiful babies are the only thing in this world i have. i apologize to anyone for that statement. and i am so sorry. for even thinking such a horrible thing please forgive me, but as i said it was not something i said i was going to do. i have just been crying and scared and alone with my two babies worried to death that  i wont be able to take care of them like they deserve. again i am sorry.

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candi+2   in reply to candi+2   on

i think i give up

 in response to Rosie327...   

i am trying to find one in my area the only shelters here are for men only or they are for drug addicts trying to recover believe me i have tried everything like that thats why i feel hopeless well one of the mq=any reasons i feel so hopeless thanks though for your blessing i need as many as i can get

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i think i give up

 we will officially be on the streets this coming monday. what am i gonna do. i even called the girls daddy for help and he said he could not help me. he is too busy drinking his alcohol and partying. i am terrified i mean what do you do with a 1 and a 2 year old on the street all day. the funny thing is i am really asking. i am not exagerating what am i gonna do  there are not any shelters here for women and kids just drug addicts and men who are homeless. i can not do this anymore. my babies do not deserve this they are so beautiful and so precious i just got my 2 year old potty trained. i just can't quit crying i don't know what to do. i have tried finding a shelter the only ones in my area are for recovering drug addicts or are for men only. i pray god sends me an angel.

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i am so desperate

i think i am so desperate i don't know what is going to happen i am scared so scared. i just want my babies to be ok . someone please help me i need so much for my babies i just want to be a good mother. Never in my wildest dreams did i think their daddy would leave me with two babies and no money no car nothing i just need help to jump start PLEASE SOMEONE PLEASE. THIS IS NOT A SCAM i am a real desperate mother asking for help. and i dont have a pic to put up because this is not my computer, its a public library. they dont have the equipment here for that. God please send me an angel

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About candi+2

i am not really sure what to do here so here it goes my name is candi i have 2 beautiful little girls ages 1 and 2. me and my boyfriend were living pretty well till the economy went really bad he lost his job and was out of work for two months, anyway, he ended up going to jail cause of some old warrants, and of course i stood beside him having to live off family members. its hard to find a job with two babies and no one to babysit also i have no car. Anyway, he gets out and we move to where he is at cause hegets a good job but also hooks up with some old friends gets a taste of single life again so when we go down there he decides his family is not what he wants anymore and i am left jobless moneyless carless and at this point hopeless with two babies i really need some help. please!!

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